Relationship Building


The We/They Mentality

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

This mentality can be destructive. Although perhaps temporarily necessary in something like sports, the we/then...

Games People Play to Avoid Taking Responsibility

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

People, because they fear losing love or arousing anger often learn to get their needs met by indirect means. Games...

Guess What?

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

There are specific dynamics that hinder communication. One is to withhold out of fear of another’s anger or...

A Rock Through the Front Window

Christine Vander Wielen, M.S.W., LCSW

Have you ever felt as if someone threw a rock through the front window of your life? The Lord promises to bind up...

EQ: What Emotional Intelligence Is and How to Develop It

Carrissa Pannuzzo, M.A., LMFT, LPC

Emotional intelligence is integral to mental and relational health. Understanding emotions, their impact on...

Stay the Course

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Recovery and healing processes may be confusing. These processes include varied experiences such as pain, humor...

The Pain of Rejection

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

In a time of feeling rejected, we simply cannot conceive that the pain of it is often going to produce something...

Claim Your Land - Handout to Broadcasts 3554, 3555, 3556

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Claim Your Land Relationships Who has hurt you? How? Who are you holding a grudge against? Who are you jealous...

Rebuilding Trust

Brenda Spina, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Trust is precious. Once lost trust becomes priceless. Brenda outlines 4 steps to practice that may help rebuild...

Five Steps in Forgiving

Lynda Savage, M.S., LMFT, LPC

Forgiveness is not sympathy. Forgiveness is not denying unfairness. Forgiveness does not have to forget...